Remembering
Alan Rossi
December 10, 1944 - April 21, 2007
Many of Alan's waterski friends shared memories and thoughts of how Alan had helped them. These are interspersed below between some tournament photos from our archives and from Shep's on SmugMug.
Alan, Connie and Gino at the 2000 Vermont Slalom Derby.
Alan always had time for you. He sincerely cared about
what other people where doing. When Alan came to the New
England Slalom Championship, he made it a better tournament.
We will miss you Alan and you will always be in our thoughts,
whenever we are out there on the water. I have not stopped
thinking about Alan, ... he was such a special guy.
--Mike Tilton
Alan was a true friend. Someone you could always rely on.
When Donna first qualified for Nationals by placing in Regionals
she did not feel she was good enough to go, but Alan helped
convince her she belonged, and was there with a big hug
when years later she medaled. There are so many good memories.
I will always remember the drive we shared to the Eastern
Regionals in Erie, PA. We talked about everything. I also
knew the "construction business Alan." His word
was his Bond. We have nothing but great memories of Alan.
He was a Champion & everyone's champion. He was genuine.
The REAL DEAL!
--Bruce & Donna Epstein
Alan always enjoyed announcing.
To Alan’s Friends,
Yeah Alan was a nice guy... always spoke to me even thought
28 off was all that I could ever hope for... one of those
guys that always made you feel like you mattered. He could
have easily let his success on and off the water affect
him like some of the Marin County / Squaw Valley / Lake
Tahoe snobs around here but he didn't. He stayed at my house
once during a Dube's Pond Tournament... Nancy and I were
estranged but taking turns living in the house. I think
I made dinner, we drank a few beers and talked about life
in general. As we sat in my four bedroom empty house with
the in-the-ground pool, two stall garage with no room for
the cars, my two dogs and a job to support all this on the
line, he reminded me that it was not the materialistic things
that were important. He spoke of his daughter’s coffee
shop at the base of Vail, CO. Maybe I owe my current life
out here in Reno, NV, base camp to the Sierra’s and
Lake Tahoe, in part to that evening talking to Alan. Anyway,
that night he slept on the sleep sofa and my dog Jake joined
him in the middle of the night. The next morning Alan just
informed me matter-of-factly that he thought Jake had flees.
He just took the exposure and the itching in stride not
making me feel bad though I did. He told me of his bad ass
turbo Porsche. He said it had so much power he could get
the front tires off the ground with the throttle! He got
over that excitement quickly and turned the keys over to
Connie. I'll never forget the day at Dube's Pond as I'm
sure he didn't either when I introduced him to my 27 year
old girlfriend Tammy. Later he asked what happened with
Nancy to which I replied, "I had a change in the line
up." I thought he was going to wet his shorts right
then and there! And then unlike some of my friends, he was
always so excited and appreciative of my t-shirt efforts
at Dube's Pond. He was the only one to buy the one off sweat
shirt I had printed and he paid the $35.00 asking price
with no hassles. I remember someone either Bruce or Mark
reading Alan's bio while he was standing on the starting
dock getting ready to take his pass in the Vermont Slalom
Derby. He introduced Alan's occupation as a water skier
and his hobby in construction. He had my respect right then
and there!!
I'm sure we all have our fond memories of Alan and he will
be missed. Alan gave a lot to all of us and it is up to
us to take it, use it and live life as he did, with passion
and the ego in check.
RIP
Chris Ober

And at the 2003 Vermont Slalom Derby.
He was certainly a highlight of all the tournaments that
he was a part of. Regardless of how you skied, he was always
eager to talk with you and even share pointers if you had
a bad set. Al always made new skiers feel welcome, regardless
of ability. His passion for the sport was contagious, and
his enormous contributions and most importantly his wonderful
personality will be dearly missed by all of us.
--Brian Decker
While I only saw him at a couple of tournaments, I think
he talked me into my first one that wasn't put on by Brian
McNeil. He was so encouraging and supportive. I had been
practicing at 24mph due to info I got from Jim McNeil. Imagine
my surprise when I got there and was told the minimum was
26mph. Again, he encouraged me to do it. I think I made
1 or 2 balls and I'm not sure I've gotten much better since
that day over 20 years ago but it's always been fun.
--Halle Davis
Al made an impact on alot of people! He didn't come to
Dubes last year and we simply weren't able to replace him.
He was otherwise always a big help over there and it's yet
another place where he'll be very sadly missed.
--Paul Myers

Alan at Dube's, 2004.
Alan was the one that helped me make the leap from ski
hacking at tournaments to real, capable skiing. Instead
of telling me specific things to do to improve my skiing,
he said I needed to come to better tournaments and to start
being in the presence of better skiers and all the information
flow that occurs. Once I became a driver, it was comforting
to have Alan sit beside me in the judge's seat and know
that together everything would stay in control and good
decisions would be made when necessary. He always had the
skier in mind and wanted to provide a professional, fair
and encouraging atmosphere in which to succeed.
--Darlene McCormick
I am so saddened by the news. Alan was a great man, always
welcoming new skiers to the scene and making them feel comfortable.
I also remember how Alan always asked how others skied,
and how it was not about himself, but he had a true concern
of others...A true gentleman! Every summer he asked about
my daughter, Michelle, even though she had been away from
the sport for years. I also know how he spoke of his daughter
and how he was so proud of her.
--Patti Nixon

...read that Al passed away. To say the least I'm shocked
and saddened. Al represented what is right with water skiing
today. He was a gentleman, always striking up conversation
with anyone and everyone and always there with his extensive
wisdom on the sport. I did not know Al like all of you up
north, but I feel like I lost a friend.
--Pat Morrill
We called him “Big Daddy,” a soft spoken giant,
a leader amongst his peers. Alan spoke little of himself,
his actions spoke for him. Yet he was inquisitive, often
taking the time to check in with others just to see how
they were doing. Most notable however, was his love of family
whom he would often reflect with pride and joy. These were
the moments that I most enjoyed with Alan, the skiing was
just the vehicle that brought such friendships together.
I’m glad to have known Alan, he leaves a legacy that
I’m certain will stand the test of time. I imagine
I’ll think of Alan this June when Dube’s Pond
Ski Club hosts its 18th June Slalom Festival, an event he
enjoyed, rarely missed, and helped make everyone feel welcome
and important (something I hope we retain without him, yet
perhaps because of him).
-- Dave Van Ham

Al and I shared several memorable firsts, first tournaments,
first Nationals, we skied on the same brand of ski from
time to time. I don't think I was alone in checking him
out at the beginning of each ski season, to see how he was
skiing, how much weight he had packed on over the winter,
what ski he was on, etc.. I was trying to figure out what
kind of shape I'd be in in eight years. I was using him
as a gauge for the future, I think a number of us were.
This went on for twenty years.
I'm still in disbelief. The memorial service was such an
emotional eye opener for me. It's just too bad he couldn't
have been there too. Maybe he would have seen all the people
that benefited from him. "Big" Al left an enormous
wake.
-- Bill Putnam

Alan at the New England Slalom Championships, 2005.
And in the
end, the love you take
Is equal to the love you make.
--Paul McCartney
